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Relationship Advice by Nancy Pina
IN TODAY'S RELATIONSHIP ADVICE ISSUE:
Guest Article: Are You Being In Service?
by: Barbara Rose
Today’s Relationship Advice by Nancy
"The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement.
But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another
profound truth."
*Niels Bohr, 1885-1962, Danish Physicist
"One word frees us of all the weïght and pain of life:
That word is love."
*Sophocles, 496-406 B.C., Greek Tragic Dramatist
Are You Being In Service?
By: Barbara Rose
I am going to ask you a few questions so that you can simply ask
yourself where you stand within your heart and mind, to know
whether you are being in service or in servitude.
Are you fulfilling the joys within your heart or are you
struggling to discover what your joys are?
Are you trying to attain anything outside of yourself to feel
better? Or are you loving the process of all that lies within the
attainment?
Are you sacrificing your truth on any level of your life? Or are
you sharing your truth with yourself and all others, regardless of
what others might think, say or do?
Being “in service” means that you are serving from the joys in
your heart because it brings you joy to do so.
Being in servitude means that you are slaving away at a job, a
position, a relationship, or in material accumulation so that you
can somehow feel better from the outside in.
This is what is known as “spiritual slavery.”
Spiritual slavery creates martyrs. It creates pain and sacrifice
at the expense of what feels true and good to you in your heart.
“Spiritual Service” means that in all of your words, deeds and
actions, you feel a sense of oneness with God, All of humanity,
and especially a sense of oneness within your own self.
I ask you to ponder the above questions and know without any doubt
in your heart and mind that you are not here in this life to do
more, you are here in this life to share and express more of who
you are from within.
Soon, you may see areas of life on Earth seem to go bad. This is
not a punishment, this is a cause for life renewal. Many times,
life renewal must follow the old structures passing away first,
before the new ones can take their place. So do not ever fear what
might seem to be outer discord. Trust and know for sure that under
the Divine Plan for all of humankind, that the new, better,
renewed and vibrant ways of truth for all shall replace many old
and rigid structures that have prevented truth to emanate for all
of humankind in many areas of life on Earth.
To some of you this may seem confusing. To some of you it is what
you already know. To others, you may ask: “What in the world does
this mean?”
It means that in order for truth to prevail on all levels, what is
false must fall away. So bear in mind that if there are any areas
of your life where you find that a new and brighter way would be
your deepest joy, trust that as the old falls away, it paves the
way for what is truly in your heart to come forward in all areas
of your life.
Never stay in a position where you feel that you must in order to
be “somebody.”
You are the Divine in physical form. Your sense of oneness can
only come from your heart where you feel at one within your very
own being. So any area of your life where you feel fragmented,
torn, not at one within – this is the area where it would do you
well to express the divinity you hold inside by being honest
enough with yourself where you can finally say: “I AM That I AM”
and come to know fully, and without question, that you are the
Divine in physical form.
Be patient with yourself as you grow. Follow what is in your heart
and take one step at a time. With every step you take, know that I
am with you, in you, as you, and guiding you from the depths of
your heart and soul where Divine Source dwells. Once you can feel
and embrace your own Divinity, you will know for sure that you are
here for far greater reasons than you may be currently aware of.
Each step, taken from your heart, combined with your deepest
truth, will always keep you on rock solid ground, where no outer
circumstance can throw you out of your inner equilibrium – for you
will always feel indwelling peace.
Trust in what your heart tells you. This is your truth. And, as
you bring it out into your life, you will be expressing your
Divine nature, and this is your gift of service to humanity.
Enjoy as you go along. Joy from your heart, joy in being, sharing
and expressing your purest truth is the joy of life on Earth.
Enjoy and Be Well.
Barbara Rose is an internationally recognized expert in the field
of personal transformation and spiritual/human potential. A
pioneering force in incorporating Higher Self Communication the
study and integration of humanity’s God-Nature into modern
personal growth and spiritual evolution. Best-selling author of
Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE
ONE, If God Was Like Man, and Individual Power: Reclaiming Your
Core, Your Truth and Your Life. Her public speaking events, tele-seminars,
webcasts, articles and private intensives have transformed the
lives of thousands across the globe.
Barbara is known for providing life-changing answers, quick
practical coaching and deep spiritual wisdom to people worldwide.
She is the founder of IHSC – Institute of Higher Self
Communication, inspire! Magazine, Rose Humanitarian Alliance, and
The Rose Group publishing company. Barbara works in cooperation
with some of the greatest spiritual leaders of our time, to uplift
the spiritual consciousness of humanity.
http://www.borntoinspire.com
Dear Nancy,
I really appreciate your advice as it has really been
of help to me.
There is a guy in my office, and I love him so much. We
were very close last year, but my old boyfriend broke
us apart. I didn't like the way my boyfriend was treating me
so I stopped seeing him. Now I want to go back
to this guy at work because I am no longer with
my old boyfriend.
I don't know what to do to make him come to me again.
We work in the same office, but most times he is
sent to France.
Please advice me on what to do. I need to attract him
so that he can fall in love with me back. I am beginning
to fall in love with him.
Cynthia
Dear Cynthia,
No one can force another person to fall in love with us.
The more you try to make something happen, the more it will
appear that you are needy, which will drive this man further
away.
One of the key elements in a solid relationship is trust,
which takes time to build. If he is open to dating you again,
you will need to start over and not try to pick up where you left
off.
I encourage you to keep busy with other friends and activities
during this time so you are not thinking only of this
relationship.
I also encourage you to take this time to examine why you
attracted
your former boyfriend into your life and see what issues God is
trying to bring to your attention and heal for you through that
experience.
Remember that you are a special child of God Cynthia and He
will not allow you to go through any situation that you cannot
handle.
I understand that the first desire we all have when a relationship
ends
is to replace what we feel we have lost. Many times, that is not
the best path to follow. You need time to grieve over the loss of
your old relationship and heal so you don't unconsciously carry
over
the issues you faced into a new relationship.
If this relationship with the man at work is God's will for your
life,
and the best possible path for you, He will make the way open up.
If not, have faith that He does have someone else better
in mind for you to share your life with.
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With God on your side, who
dare be against you?
I pray that He shine
His light upon you and bless you with
peace, joy and happiness.
May God bless your life and may you
experience abundant love!
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