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Guest Article: Society's Misconception of Soul Mates, Conclusion
By Barbara Rose
Today’s Relationship Advice by Nancy
"It is better to be motivated
by the souls hunger rather than
the egos greed."
*Unknown
"Nothing is so easy as to deceive oneself; for what we wish,
we readily believe."
*Demosthenes
Society's Misconception of Soul
Mates, Final Excerpt
By Barbara Rose
In this physical world, when you look at the face of the one you
know and love,
you can often tell from their expression what they are thinking or
how they are
feeling. It is the same in the nonphysical side, only it happens
with energy
patterns of light and color.
So you cannot fool one another. Your growth has to be genuine. As
you grow,
you feel better about yourself. You also see that your perfect
match is right there,
has never left your side and never will, as long as you continue
to grow, even if only one grain at a time. The grander purpose of
the soul mate reunion. As the grains of sand accumulate, the
higher or grander purposes of the union with your soul mate become
more obvious to you both.
You realize - although you may try
to look away, afraid of the light on the path
you have chosen to take - that those reasons are, in fact, your
truest reasons
for coming into this life. You realize that you are more than your
own personal
challenges and growth efforts; you are your essence, and your
essence is here
on Earth at this precise time and place because it is needed.
You are needed, together.
If you look closely, as you would
under a microscope, you will see that one half of the soul cannot
ever achieve, contribute, or bring forth the results it can when
both halves are combined. You are distinct in each of your roles;
distinct in each of your vast talents and abilities; yet, you
share a common vision. Only when your efforts are combined will
you succeed in achieving the purposes you strive to attain. How
can you bake bread without water? How can you bake bread without
flour? The flour and water must be combined. Analogously, each
soul mate carries the substance that, when combined with the
other, produces the results which shall contribute to this
universe the very reasons why you each chose to be born into this
life.
Evolution may appear to be simple, but it is actually quite
complex, involving billions
of years and billions of energies all working together for the
creation of the greater good. Even so, you and your soul mate,
combined, are an important part of the evolution of the human
species. One soul is no better than another. Every human being is
needed to help the species progress.
When you turn away from your own growth, all of humankind pays a
great price.
As you recognize this, after denial, after trying to run, after
all of this nonsense,
you say inwardly, “I can’t lie to myself anymore, I can’t run away
anymore, because
I know I will regret it all the days of my life.”
So you decide to be all you came into this life to be, to be the
dearest and best
friend to your soul mate; for who other than the one who shares
your same energy
could better understand your every nuance?
You agree now that you have a purpose. Your first purpose is to
grow and heal individually. Only then will your larger purpose
will be made real. The path shall be very clear. There will be no
ambiguity for either of you. You will each know what you are here
on this Earth to do. You will each clearly see how perfectly your
purposes blend.
You will also come to feel a deep appreciation of how special and
rare it is to find a
true friend, to have someone in your life whose hand you can
always hold no matter
what life brings. Their solitude shall always bring you solitude
of your own; their comforting and smiles shall bring you warmth;
and their bodies shall always feel as soft and as comfortable as
your own skin.
This is the bliss of the soul mate reunion. This is the paradise,
the gift, of living in a
physical life, creating your own heaven on Earth, as you reach
deep within to unleash and finally clear the negativity that
previously held you back, the negativity you have surely outgrown.
You will find that neither of you will allow the other to give up,
give in, or settle for
being less than your very best.
Yes, you can have bad moods. Yes, you may act like two year olds
and throw temper tantrums, but as people with responsibility
toward yourselves and ultimately toward the advancement of
humanity, you will not permit each other to grow complacent or
languish in laziness.
So you may find that each of you will always be eager to show the
other all you are
doing, and this brings joy and excitement into your relationship.
When you stop running, you find freedom and true inner peace.
There is that old saying, “You can run, but you cannot hide.”
You may run from your soul mate, you may run from the knowledge of
your potential
and the inherent gifts you chose to be born into this life to
give, but you cannot hide
from them. They will always exist within your heart, your mind,
and your conscience;
and the day will come - perhaps on your last day on this Earth,
perhaps this evening-
the day will come when you will know who you are, who your soul
mate really is, and
why you are here. Imagine the joy and exuberance that await you as
you come out of hiding, when you stop running, when you look
beside you and see your treasure, your gift, the one person who
will never let you down. The one person who sees, who knows, who
accepts all of you, who shares so much of you. That one person
patiently waits for you to allow your best to flow from your
being, waits for you to be who you really are.
Nothing more.
Nothing less.
Just pure you.
This is freedom.
This is a gift.
This is your gift to humanity and to this universe: to be you, and
to treasure every moment. Release the fear. Be free. Hold nothing
back. As you and your soul mate see each other, you recognize how
fortunate you are to be able to journey through this life
together, for as you know, there are only a few souls to
whom you can truly relate. When you have found one another, be
glad, and then be all you came here to be. Be yourself, and your
soul mate will remain by your side, still doing his own work, in
his own way, expressing his own individuality.
The dynamic of the soul mate union works this way:
His issues trigger your growth.
Your growth then challenges him to grow.
Your inner peace must come from your own individual healing, not
from the healing of your soul mate. Your peace comes from within.
It is from within each of your souls that your deepest truths and
life purposes must be revealed, expressed, accepted, understood,
and nurtured - first by yourself and then by your soul mate. Once
your truths come to the surface, you will find that the love and
bond you share will sustain you through the difficult process of
individual growth and healing. As you achieve the personal healing
of your deepest growth issues, you will feel inner peace. Then,
together, you will experience the treasured bliss of the soul-mate
union. After all of the turmoil, you will look back and realize
that the process was necessary for healing, so you could, in fact,
remain together and once again create your own heaven on Earth.
Barbara Rose is an Internationally acclaimed public speaker,
spiritual author of: "Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship
Guide to Being THE ONE" "If God Was Like Man" and "Individual
Power: Reclaiming Your Core, Your Truth, and Your Life", founder
of The Rose Group publishing company, inspire! Magazine, Institute
of Higher Self Communication, and Rose Humanitarian Alliance.
http://www.borntoinspire.com
Relationship Advice by Nancy Pina
Dear Nancy,
Question - what is the difference about "being in love" and saying
"I love you" ??
Thank you,
Diana
Dear Diana,
Our language has only has one word for love which is limiting for
us since there are varying degrees of love in our society.
We love our friends, family, and relationship partners in
different ways. Some love is platonic such as the love we have for
our friends; some love is based on shared
experiences and circumstances such as the love we have with family
members; and some love is based on soul connection, as we should
have with the right relationship partner. This love we share with
our soul mate.
There is a big difference between "being in love" with someone and
saying "I love you." One can say the words, "I love you" and love
the qualities, integrity, personality, interests and all the other
admirable attributes that person possesses and not be "in love"
with that person.
Many people stay in relationships with those they "love" but are
not "in love" with simply because they possess so many good
qualities. They allow their mind to convince them to stay instead
of listening to God's voice in their heart telling them that they
are not in a relationship with their soul mate.
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His light upon you and bless you with
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May God bless your life and may you
experience abundant love!
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