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Relationship Advice Article:
Do You Really Have Competition?
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Welcome to Relationship Advice by Nancy Pina
IN TODAY'S RELATIONSHIP ADVICE ISSUE:
Guest Article: Do You Really Have Competition?
By Barbara Rose
Today’s Relationship Advice by Nancy
"The practice of forgiveness
is our most important contribution
to the healing of the world."
*Marianne Williamson, American Author and Lecturer on
Spirituality
"Greatness lies not in being strong, but in the right use of
strength."
*Henry Ward Beecher, 1813-1887, American Preacher/Orator/Writer
Do You Really Have Competition?
By Barbara Rose
I had to write this article after so many years of watching people
both fear and cringe from the thought of competition.
This “competition” can be in the form of another person, business,
colleague, you name it, and I would venture to say that you have
seen people get really upset at even the idea of having
“competition.”
I’ve watched a “one up-man ship” even within the spiritual genre,
and it saddens me to see so many people afraid of the light of
others. So this article will hopefully clear this up for either
you or someone you many know that is upset over “competition.”
Here is the FACT: There is NO competition with you, period. No one
else on this planet can be you, or do what you came here to do. No
one else can be all that you are, and the very fear of any type of
competition literally pulls YOU down, not the other.
I grew up with a family in the restaurant business. Oh my God,
when another restaurant opened up down the street, panic ensued. I
would sit there and watch the pandemonium and think to myself: “My
family has one of the greatest restaurants in the city, WHY are
they so afraid of another restaurant? Don’t they realize that if
they turn all of the terror into passion to be the best that they
are, there is nothing to fear at all?”
I’ve watched women in morbid fear of another beautiful woman
entering the neighborhood, so afraid that their husband would be
“stolen.” I’ve seen the same with men as well.
I’ve watched companies of all kinds refuse to work in harmony with
their “competition” out of sheer fear of loss, and nothing else.
Let me share something that is extremely important: When you
realize all that YOU are, and love every part of yourself, your
life, and all you are doing you will NEVER fear competition,
because quite frankly, it is all in the mind, and nowhere else!
We live in an extremely “competitive” world. Most of humanity has
been taught to fear, rather than BE, and be quite good enough
simply by being their best.
Many of you may know that Mr. R.H. Macy of Macy’s department store
in New York City was the FIRST person that instructed his
employees to refer his customers to another store that carried
merchandise that they were looking for, but that he did not carry.
The look on the customer’s faces was one of sheer shock! That made
Mr. Macy quite successful. He knew that Bloomingdales was nearby,
so was Lord and Taylor, and he STILL did his best, and had zero
fear of competition.
I have seen authors that were not allowed to place links of other
authors on their own websites! Personally, I don’t just read one
magazine I read tons of magazines. Same for books. And I am quite
happy to share them all with anyone I know that is looking for a
great read.
Whenever we compare ourselves to “the competition” we somehow wind
up on the lower side of the comparison. Or, sometimes people
actually gloat at how terrible their “competition” is doing. This
arises strictly out of the ego’s domain of fear, or false pride,
and nowhere else.
The soul, on the other hand, knows no fear, false pride or
boundaries. If you are afraid of “competition” than there is an
area within Self that must be healed and restored into the vibrant
and radiant person that you truly are deep within. As this heals,
you feel more confidence, joy and even pleasure of having so many
people near your life that you may have previously viewed as
competition.
You have one Light. You have a Divine purpose. There is no other
being alive that matches your identical purpose and being. It is
as unique as your own fingerprint.
Try to view all souls in this manner. All people want to feel they
are the best. The truth is that all people ARE – once they
themselves believe this, then fear of competition on any and every
level of life will cease permanently, and glowing confidence and
Divine cooperation and harmony will gloriously take its place.
By: Barbara Rose
http://www.borntoinspire.
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I pray that God shines
His light upon you and bless you with
peace, joy and happiness.
May God bless your life and may you
experience abundant love!
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What Can You Learn About Relationships from Expert Nancy Pina? Get Ready To Be Amazed!!
Remarkable, real-life relationship advice expert Nancy Pina reveals the truth about why we attract certain relationships - and how you can raise your standards and reach the love you deserve.
Dear Friend,
Have you thought how wonderful it would be to share your life with the "right" relationship partner?
If you are like most people, you've dreamed of this, but ended up short of your ideal.
But this ideal IS achievable. If you are searching for a way to break out of old relationship cycles and experience true intimate love, I have created your road map to reach your relationship goals.
It all starts with releasing self-created “facades” – so you can be loved for who you really are.
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Only then … can you can attract the love of your life.
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Only then … can you create meaningful intimacy and true emotional connection.
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Only then … can you feel secure and fulfilled in a relationship based on a solid foundation of mutual love, trust & respect.
One of the biggest problems you might face is how to release past relationship pain and issues. I will show you how suppressing unresolved feelings will hold you back from attracting a wonderful new relationship.
In a simple, yet profound process, I reveal to you how to immediately change the way you think about relationships -- then redirect the creative power of your thoughts, words and actions.
Imagine how your life will change when you claim the knowledge and tools to attract the right relationship partner, and make your dream a reality.
You will discover:
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Why self-love is so important to manifest relationship success,
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The surprising role of intuition, and how to use it,
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What you need to know about past relationship origins,
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How core beliefs drive relationship choices, and
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Why forgiveness is so vitally important to loving relationships.
I also share my personal insights to my own relationship journey -- and encouragement that will help you overcome every relationship obstacle. You’ll learn:
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How to stop unconsciously attracting the same type of relationship,
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How to immediately recognize important qualities and characteristics in a potential partner,
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How to communicate lovingly and effectively, and
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How to silence your inner critic.
It is your destiny to experience a healthy, loving and joyful relationship with mutual respect, trust and honor for each other.
It would be my honor to work with you and show you how to put these right relationship principles to work so YOU can manifest the love of YOUR life.
I offer several different ways to share my teachings with you:
I look forward to working with you as you discover your right relationship and attract the love that God intends for you to experience.
Blessings,
Nancy Pina
Relationship Expert & Author The Right Relationship Can Happen
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