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Relationship Advice Article:
Law & Order Of The Spiritual Kind
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Welcome to Relationship Advice by Nancy Pina
IN TODAY'S RELATIONSHIP ADVICE ISSUE:
Guest Article: Law and Order of the Spiritual Kind - by Geela
Today’s Relationship Advice by Nancy
Man has never made any material as resilient as the human spirit."
Bernard Williams (English Philosopher)
Law and Order of the Spiritual Kind
There is no such thing as a coincidence. Albert Einstein
reasoned that, “God simply does not play dice.” While we may
not fully understand the reasons behind certain events, there
are laws and order in the universe specifically designed to
facilitate harmony and prosperity for all living things. Yet,
as humans, we violate not only man’s laws, but also the laws of
the universe. It’s as if an “insanity” bug has plagued the
world community, which has now reached epidemic proportions.
Perhaps that’s because knowingly, or unknowingly, we choose not
to live in harmony with the laws of the universe and as a result
of our actions we experience failure, powerlessness and discord.
Take for example one law – the law of cause and effect. Chaos
seems to be the norm these days rather than the exception, but
that is not the cause for our collective pain and misery.
That’s only the effect resulting from an underlying cause that
has to do with our own failure to observe and cooperate with
the laws of the universe characterized by honoring all living
things. Since personal accountability is demanded of us in our
daily lives, why should we expect things to be any different on
a grander scale – such as in the universe?
When greed, lack of awareness (the ability to see the unity in
all living things) and the erosion of solid moral values, so
inherent in a society driven by a materialist values system,
cloud our thinking and numb our hearts to the point where we
can’t tell the difference between right and wrong, we invariably
experience failure and lack - lack of prosperity and security to
lack of real joy, real love and a sense of meaning and purpose.
Perhaps we need law and order to save us from ourselves. Law
and order are there for a reason. In order to illustrate the
value of having law and order on a grander and spiritual scale,
imagine for a moment if there were no traffic lights – there
would be nothing but chaos and every one would stand to lose.
Law and order are necessary “tools,” not so much to restrict us
but rather to enhance the quality of our lives by preventing us
from “bumping” into each other, causing accidental mayhem and
bringing destruction and chaos upon ourselves by default. But
of course, rather than taking a good look at ourselves in the
mirror, it’s always much easier to point the finger at someone
or something else, like God. After all, no one can really prove
it or disprove it either. Remember the classic story of the
kid who failed to bring his homework to school and blamed it on
the “monster” who ate it? Perhaps it’s time to make peace
with the fact that there are laws and order in the universe that
are actually good for us all. So, if you don’t like the effect
(the current climate of world insanity that erodes any sense of
security and joy), why not remove the root cause first. It’s
easier than you think. Just by living in harmony with the laws
of the universe, we can all achieve security, prosperity and
freedom. And if it’s peace and cultural harmony you wish to
experience, perhaps the words of Jimi Hendrix that “only when
the power of love replaces the love of power, can there be peace
on earth,” will resonate with you too and inspire you to be the
change you wish to see in the world. Who knows maybe we can
even all use the name of God without embarrassment either.
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Copyright © 2004, Geela
Author of “The American Dream”
http://www.Geela.com
Geela is an award winning singer/songwriter/composer, columnist,
and author of the best-selling book “THE AMERICAN DREAM,” her
true- life story of how she came to America as a young immigrant
with nothing and overcame incredible obstacles to achieve
mega-success. She founded ONE SPIRIT, ONE WORLD to help children
and promote a culture of peace and harmony. Get a free sample of
her music and her book at http://www.Geela.com
TODAY'S RELATIONSHIP ADVICE BY NANCY
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nancy.pina@yourtruematch.com along with your relationship question.
I will reply to you within 24 hours or less.
Hello Nancy,
I have been dating a wonderful, sincere, fun
and funny man that I am very attracted. He is terrific...
very sweet and complementary. He has all the
qualities that I really like in a man.
There is one clinch, of course, he does not
have much or any money –
plus he is in a little debt ($6K).
He is 46 and I'm 38. He did not complete college,
has an okay job considering his skill set but
limited potential to earn money.
I have 2 master degrees and have a solid job/career.
I pay when we dine out which is okay since I want
to go there but...I'm fearful that this could be
an area where I could develop resentment
which could interfere with the relationship.
We have discussed it...
he is trying to save money and get out of debt.
I am not materialistic but
I AM INTERESTED in BEING FINANCIALLY SECURE
and don't want to go into debt by dating
someone who I do really love.
In love, having fun - recently divorced.
Thanks for your input.
Holly
Dear Holly,
You are wise to address this issue because more people end relationships
over money than any other reason.
Time will tell if he is secure enough to handle that you make more
money than he does.
For some men, it is a big issue and their pride gets in the way and
the relationship never gets past this issue.
I do encourage you to voice your sincere appreciation for what he does bring to
your relationship. He needs to hear that from you.
If this relationship develops into a long-term, you will need to be honest with yourself
and make sure that you are okay with his financial situation.
If you are, I advise that you keep the lines of communication open in regard
to your mutual financial goals.
Having a spending and savings plan where you both are involved will
definitely help in keeping any resentments from building up.
You are blessed to meet someone who has all the important qualities
that make a relationship work.
Nancy
May God bless your life this week and may you experience abundant love!
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