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What Greatness Might Look Like

 
  Today’s Relationship Advice by Nancy 
 
 
  
"The abundant life does not come to those who have had a lot
of obstacles removed from their path by others. It develops
from within and is rooted in strong mental and moral fiber."

*William Mather Lewis

 
 

What Greatness Might Look Like

God said:

You have an old image of yourself, perhaps one handed down.

You do not know what you are capable of, and you do not know all that you have already fulfilled. You judge by the world. You think you cannot be an enlightened being because you carry around a physical body, and you equate yourself with your physical body. You think you can't be enlightened because you bite your fingernails or take the biggest piece of cake and do not always feel loving every minute. You think you can't be enlightened because you are too gregarious or too reclusive. You have a million reasons to doubt your enlightenment. You have set up incorrect parameters.

In your mind, you have been working from the bottom up. You have come from the premise that there is much you have to change before you can be enlightened. You have a long to-do and to-be list, filled with imposed regulations. And, time and time again, you don't fulfill your list, and time and time again, you feel enlightenment getting further and further away from you, as if you are on a treadmill and
getting nowhere.

I would like to suggest that you start from the premise that you are already where you want to be. You are already enlightened. It is a good premise to start from. It is certainly much better than thinking you will never get there. Start from the top down. Start from where you want to be. Already enlightened, all you have to do is to recognize it. This idea alone will melt blocks you have held on to. When you
stand at the mountain top, snow melts downwards. It doesn't melt upwards. Start from the top.

Enlightenment simply isn't what you have thought. You can be an enlightened being with foibles. Being enlightened doesn't mean you are always wonderful. It doesn't mean that you are always appreciated when you are wonderful. Inner being and outer many not be aligned. They are two avenues, and, like train tracks
in the distance, they will meet. They will meet.

Enlightenment happens in awareness. There is no other place where it can happen. Light may certainly be revealed in action, but actions do not of necessity indicate the light that shines within.

So long as you are in a body, you are in a body. It is only in your mental conditioning that the physical body hampers your enlightenment. There is nothing, nothing you have to be in order to be enlightened. You do not need someone to show you how. You do not have to look a certain way. You do not have to eat a certain way.
You do not have to be celibate or not be celibate. Surely, enlightenment is beyond your physical propensities.

Do you really think, for instance, that what you eat is more powerful than the rays of the Light of God? Do you really think your physical body has to be in perfect health for you to be enlightened? Do you think you have to have great mental prowess to be enlightened?

I.Q. is a world quotient. I am talking about enlightenment. Your E.Q. is high. It reaches Heaven. I give you permission to be the human being you are. I have not told you to be someone else. I have not told you to imitate anyone. I have not told you to force anything or to pretend anything. I have told you to aspire to greatness because that is the truth of you. Greatness is not far away from you. It is right within you. Whatever you may look like, whatever the world may think of you, even whatever you think of yourself, you are already the goldenness you aspire to. In the moment of inception of Creation, I made you so.

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Relationship Advice by Nancy Pina

Hi Nancy,

Ok, so I met this girl and she's very mature
in most of her decisions and attitude. We both still like to
have fun and party to an extent, her a bit more.

She's not ready for a relationship right now but neither am I.
We have already been intimate, from day one but then she
freaked out because of how fast it moved and how close we got.

We decided, no more sex, just friends. In the next two-three weeks
we spent the night together about 4 times and just kissed.
We started to get close again and she freaked out again.
It's obvious that she's not ready and I understand. But, it's very
hard for me to be "just friends" but if I don't I feel like I might lose
out on something special down the road?

We have a lot of fun together, we are attracted to each other
and we have a lot in common. The only problem is timing.

What do I do? Can this relationship happen?

Gregg

Dear Gregg,

As you are experiencing, it is difficult to turn back and stop
the intimacy once the relationship has taken that turn. Keep
in mind that relationships built on the excitement of physical
attraction and romance alone will not last. The rush of these
intense feelings will decline over time when compatibility issues
arise.

If your desire is to have a long term relationship with this woman,
you will need to respect her decision to hold off on intimacy until
she feels she can trust you.

It will take time to establish a solid foundation of mutual love,
trust, respect and friendship. Building this foundation is how couples
create a special and lasting relationship.

It will be to your mutual benefit to get to know each other on an
emotional and spiritual level and finding out what your mutual goals
and dreams are for the future.

I encourage you to stop spending the night together as this is setting
back the progress you are making in your relationship.

 
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 His light upon you and bless you with
 peace, joy and happiness. 
 
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