June 10, 2004
One frequent topic I
receive from women in relationships concerns boyfriends who maintain
close relationships with their ex-girlfriends. They are manipulated by
their boyfriends to believe they are the ones with a jealousy problem
and should “grow up.” My answer is two-fold. In a relationship, the only
person we should be emotionally vulnerable to is our partner, and vise
versa. Trust in your relationship cannot be established if your
boyfriend has another confidant with whom he had an intimate history. At
the core, these men have a fear of vulnerability and by keeping an
ex-girlfriend as an active participant in their lives they avoid real
vulnerability in their current relationship. The ex-girlfriend serves as
the barrier to knowing real love. Unless he completely breaks the ties
he has with his ex-girlfriend, the current girlfriend will never have
the type of relationship she wants to experience.
The second half of my answer is directed to the current girlfriend. We
attract every person and situation in our lives to support our core
beliefs. At some point early in life, she formed a core belief that men
are not trustworthy and reliable. As a result, her boyfriend is acting
accordingly to reinforce that belief. The people and experiences in our
lives are there to help us heal and grow. It is each person’s job to
figure out what aspect of ourselves that we are not truly embracing and
see what is being mirrored back to us in the people we attract into our
lives.
The only person we can change is ourselves and once we change, the
circumstances will change too.
Love is so wonderful and life is too short to not fully experience the
blessing the right relationship will be in your life.
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has over 20 years experience working with singles all over the world.
She resides in Houston, Texas with her husband.
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