June 17, 2004
The road to understanding and exploring the
past often begins when we are at the lowest point. We can only go up
from there. All our lessons and experiences are about ourselves and not
other people in our lives. We alone can control our emotions and
reactions. We are not responsible for the reactions of others.
The following is a few brief profile
depicting a personality pattern that consists of controlling beliefs
that feel natural to you.
If you believe the people you love will
leave, and eventually you will end up emotionally isolated, a feeling of
abandonment dictates your behavior. If dating situations, are you drawn
to those who are unavailable to you in some significant way? Have you
been attracted to married individuals or those who are seriously
involved with someone else? Are you drawn to individuals who have
limited time for you, such as workaholics, long-distance relationships,
or people who travel extensively? Have you been in relationships with
people who treat you with ambivalence?
If you are dealing with this particular
pattern, you feel that you will somehow be left alone, whether people
close to you may die, leave home forever, or walk out on you for someone
else. Because of this belief, you may cling to people too much and end
up pushing them away. Even normal, brief partings may upset you.
Abandonment anxiety begins early in life
and involves basic safety. While growing up, you may have experienced a
turbulent family environment and felt vulnerable, fragile, and moody.
You probably felt that something terrible might happen at any moment.
Those who were supposed to love, care for, and protect you did not,
which resulted in a feeling of desertion. Because of this pattern, you
are drawn into relationships with people who have the potential to
trigger this feeling of abandonment. You may be attracted to people who
seem to have the potential to provide you with a stable relationship,
but never completely fulfill it. Your relationship partners keep you
guessing on their level of commitment and connection to you.
Because this is a familiar feeling, you are
attracted to the idea of never really being sure if they will remain in
your life.
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