June 8, 2004
What prevents you from resolving conflicts?
For some people disagreements send a panic signal, like a sign that the
relationship is flawed. Every relationship will have its share of
conflicts, disagreements and arguments – and that’s normal! The key is
to identify some of the impediments to effective conflict resolution.
Overall, the biggest roadblock is attitude. Your attitude is a
reflection of the worth you place on yourself and your partner.
Attitudes can be severely impacted if unresolved anger and resentment
are held onto. If you do not forgive yourself or your future partner,
you will never be able to maintain the open, caring attitude needed for
genuine resolution.
Another block to resolving conflict is a
lack of skill in communication. Learning to express your feelings and
thoughts in a clear and respectful manner is vital to prevent anger and
hurt feelings. When a caring attitude is combined with effective
communication skills, the road to healthy conflict resolution is free of
these obstacles. Conflict can be defined in terms of the issues that
caused it, the strategies used to address it, and the outcomes that
follow from it. Strategies for resolving or preventing the development
of conflict can be classified as avoidance, diffusion, or confrontation.
Timing is everything in conflict
resolution. Do not give in to the impulse to blurt out the first thing
that comes to mind when you are angry. Wait until you have calmed down
and then address the problem. Trust will profoundly affect your ability
to resolve conflict in marriage. Real communication can only take place
when genuine feelings and honest thoughts are expressed. Hiding behind a
façade will not bring resolution to the conflict at hand.
The goal in understanding communication
styles is to reach a comfort level when expressing positive and negative
emotions and effectively resolving conflicts. Each person is receptive
to information, ideas, criticism, and praise in a certain form. The idea
is to find the mode best suited for you. Conflict resolution will be an
ongoing process throughout your relationship. The challenge in
communicating within an intimate relationship is learning to hear what
your partner is saying, regardless of the filters built up from past
relationships and life experiences. By recognizing these barriers in
communication, you can stop the past from recreating itself in the
present.
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