October 6, 2004
As an author, relationship advice
expert, and former matchmaker, I understand the universal feeling of
desire to meet and marry the right person.
Selecting the right woman may be the most important and life altering
decision you will make. This choice determines the level of your future
happiness within the relationship. It also affects those whose lives you
touch everyday.
Every man has the ability to attract marriage into his life, but deep
down, most men seek that amazing woman, the "one" who makes life
meaningful.
No man wants to second guess his choice of marriage partner and have a
nagging feeling that he settled for someone less than his idea of the
right person. Everyone wants to be unquestionably in love, without
regrets.
With the materialistic bombardment men receive from media and society,
it is easy to loose sight of what qualities are really important to
amazing women. A man of character and honor will attract the most
amazing woman over the man of material wealth and questionable
character.
To attract and marry an amazing woman begins with you. By developing the
following qualities in yourself, you will discover the key to living an
abundant and personally fulfilling life with the love of your life.
1) Generosity of your time and attention.
An amazing woman will be strongly attracted to a man who freely and
willingly shares his time with her. I encourage you to sincerely convey
an interest in her and what she wants to accomplish in life. She knows
you are focused on your career, but remember that life is all about love
- not how many material goals you attain, how far you go in your company
or landing the next big deal.
She wants your undivided attention when she's sharing these personal
dreams with you. Take the time to pull yourself away from the newspaper,
CNN news, the football game, and/or the internet and listen to her share
her day with you.
It's the emotional connection that makes an amazing woman want to do
more for you day in and day out. When you give your attention to her,
you instill a feeling of worthiness.
An amazing woman wants to be able to express her hopes, dreams, concerns
and worries to you without fear of condemnation - or worse, being
ignored. Nothing makes her feel unappreciated and unloved faster than
being shut out by the man she loves.
She doesn't want you to find a solution or fix the issues she discusses
with you. Just being able to acknowledge her feelings and offer your
emotional support is all that is needed.
2) Making her your priority in life.
By being generous with your time and attention, you convey a sense of
security and belief that she is your main priority in life.
It is your responsibility within the relationship to build her
confidence up, not tear her down. When her self-esteem is high, she will
in turn have the capacity to shower you with her love, attention,
devotion and time.
An amazing woman is not attracted to a one-dimensional man who is
focused primarily on his career and furthering his agenda. An amazing
woman will not share her life with a man who makes her feel as if she's
near the bottom of the priority list.
3) Love of family and friends.
An amazing woman wants to share her joy and happiness with family
and friends alike. A man who treats his family and friends with respect,
loyalty and love knows the importance of relationships and how they
enrich and enhance life.
4) Trustworthiness.
She wants to know that you will be there during all times, not just
the times when everything is going well. A sense of security is
instilled in her when you communicate with each other.
An amazing woman values the relationship and friendship qualities of
sincerity and trustworthiness. Trust takes time to develop and by being
a man of your word you are building the foundation for a solid
relationship.
5) Positive attitude.
An amazing woman is attracted to a man with positive energy. A man who
can align his thoughts, words and actions is someone who is not
self-centered. An amazing woman is attracted to a man who backs his
positive words with action.
He does not wear his feelings on his shoulder or allows every little
perceived slight get under his skin and ruin his whole day. He does not
get mad every time he gets in the car and encounters bad drivers. He
does not go around believing that the world is against him. He knows how
to pick his battles and stands up for his beliefs without creating
strife for no reason at all.
He gives people the benefit of the doubt and does not take everything so
personally. He does not dissect every inflection and tone of voice in
what is said in his conversations, looking for an attack on himself and
a reason to fight back.
He is man enough to forgive, forget and move on. He does not allow
negative thoughts to take root in his heart, leading to grudges against
others.
6) Respect and honor.
Your life will be blessed in accordance to the amount of respect and
honor you show your relationship partner. The more you hold her in your
highest regard, the more your life will be full of favor. We all know of
men who treat the woman they love with the least amount of respect,
honor and consideration over others.
She has to fend for herself. To really experience an abundant life, she
should be the one person you treat the best.
7) Shared faith.
The most important component of a lasting, loving and fulfilling
relationship is a shared faith in God. It is the tie that binds you
together. Sharing your spiritual journey is a vital, fulfilling and
joyful aspect within your relationship.
Striving to be a man of good character will attract a woman who enhances
your life, a woman who builds you up and enriches your life. Together
you will create a relationship that generates positive feelings for each
other. Both your lives will be blessed! Love is so wonderful and life is
too short to not fully experience the blessings the right relationship
will have in your life.
There is no substitute for sharing your life with the right partner.
That person is waiting for you. Your job is to trust that at the right
time this person will enter into your life.
Be ready to accept the goodness and blessing of this gift when she
arrives.
Realize Your Greatest
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Do you often dream of living
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current relationship? Do you desire an emotionally and
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Nancy Pina
has over 20 years experience working with singles all over the world.
She resides in Houston, Texas with her husband.
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