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The
only way to truly secure the future "Real
generosity toward the future consists in giving all to what
is present." -- Albert Camus |
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We
need not stress or worry our way to a secure future. It is not the
answer. The only thing we're actually doing when we
worry is training ourselves how to worry as a habit. And in the
process we're robbing ourselves of the only training that can secure
our future (if there is such a thing), and that's learning to be fully
present in each given moment. A dear friend of mine once gave me
a gift of the greatest little book, The Precious Present, by
Spencer Johnson, and in it was this wonderful reminder of what is so
true: Paradoxically,
it is through this full appreciation of self in "the precious
present" that we become most capable of hearing God and
surrendering our selves to appreciation of what is and fulfillment
in the selfless service of others. After all, we cannot surrender
that which we do not know, respect, and value, just as we need not
secure through our own efforts that which has already been given to us,
which brings me back to that great little story ... |
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An
American investment banker was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican
village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside
the small boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The American
complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long
it took to catch them. The
Mexican replied, "only a little while." The
American then asked why didn't he stay out longer and catch more fish? The
Mexican said he had enough to support his family's immediate needs. The
American then asked, "but what do you do with the rest of your
time?" The
Mexican fisherman said, "I sleep late, fish a little, play with my
children, take siestas with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each
evening where I sip wine, and play guitar with my amigos. I have a
full and busy life." The
American scoffed, "I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You
should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat.
With the proceeds from the bigger boat, you could buy several boats,
eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of
selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the
processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control
the product, processing, and distribution. You would need to leave
this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and
eventually New York City, where you will run your expanding
enterprise." The
Mexican fisherman asked, "But, how long will this all take?" To
which the American replied, "15 - 20 years." "But
what then?" Asked the Mexican. The
American laughed and said, "That's the best part. When the
time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to
the public and become very rich, you would make millions!" "Millions
- then what?" The
American said, "Then you would retire. Move to a small
coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play
with your kids, take siestas with your wife, stroll to the village in
the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your
amigos." |