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Patience and the illusion called time

"There is time for everything." -- Thomas Edison 

"There is absolutely no reason for being rushed along with the rush.  Everybody should be free to go slow." -- Robert Frost

"There are hundreds of tasks we feel we must accomplish in the day, but if we do not take them one at a time and let them pass through the day slowly and evenly, as do the grains of sand passing through the narrow neck of the hourglass, then we are bound to break our own physical and mental structure." -- Ted Bergernine

Have you ever visited a Thomas Edison home/museum, either the one in New Jersey or Florida?  When you visit one of these places and walk around the grounds - taking in the gardens, the laboratories, the libraries, the inventions - the most powerful feeling you are left with is "How did he do it all?".  How did this man pack more than a dozen lifetimes into just one?  Where did he find the time to accomplish all that he did?  And at the same time live a peaceful life filled with family, friends, and lots of quality leisure time?  Well, the truth is that Thomas Edison understood and mastered both Ted's distinction about "physical and mental structures," as well as Frost's about feeling "free to go slow," and he gave himself completely, yet calmly, to every single task - one at a time - whether it was his endless experiments, his homes, his gardening, his inventions, his love of conversation with family and friends, his reading, and there was more than enough time for all of it.  What an amazing role model for effective, efficient "time management" through the subtle art of "being present" to each moment.

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I especially love his famous line that goes, "Don't tell me I've failed; I've just found 10,000 ways that don't work."  With that, I can always remember, especially in the midst of my own hardship and turmoil over my own failings, that I haven't failed; I'm just sorting through all those things that don't work on my way to great discovery.  So, this morning as I was sitting here praying, "God, please help me regain my sense of calm and peacefulness as we enter the home stretch before our new baby comes.", I flipped the page of one of my desk calendars, and these words appeared to further reinforce today's theme: 

"How are we to be patient with our partner's, our children's, our friends', and our neighbors' faults if we are impatient in dealing with our own?  They who are fretted by their own failings will not correct them.  All profitable correction comes from a calm and peaceful mind." 
-- St. Francis de Sales 


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