Finding those "somebodys"

My wife makes me communicate my feelings and my problems BEFORE I have them resolved, which creates the intimacy I most want in life, which I CAN do, but resist.

My sons and family make me face my own past actions, choices, and consequences WITHOUT excuse, guilt, or shame, which creates the self-acceptance that I most want in life, which I CAN have, but resist.

My friends and spiritual guides (you know who you are) make me honor myself completely and be 100% responsible for my own health and well-being, which creates the feeling of being fully alive, which I CAN celebrate, but resist.

Thank you to all of you wonderful "somebodys" out there who push me beyond my own resistance, for my own benefit.  And to those of you for whom I play this role, you are very welcome.