"In a man's life, the absence of an essential component usually leads to the adoption of a substitute.  The substitute is usually embraced with vehemence and extremism, for we have to convince ourselves that what we took as second choice is the best there ever was or can be. Thus blind faith is to a considerable extent a substitute for the lost faith in ourselves; insatiable desire a substitute for hope; accumulation of wealth a substitute for growth; fervent hustling a substitute for purposeful action; and pride a substitute for an unattainable self-respect."-- Eric Hoffer

"Thoreau said that most men lead lives of quiet desperation... Boys, don't be resigned to that.  For he also said that it is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things."
 -- Robin Williams as Mr. Keating in the movie "Dead Poets Society"

As human beings, we can often get so caught up in our "pursuit" of a good life that we end up living lonely lives of "quiet (and frantic, and hostile) desperation."   For example, people often lose themselves in arguments over religion, abandoning godliness while claiming to be either rightly or uniquely representing or seeking it.  We slip into it so unconsciously, just as we can slip into lusting after money, power, and/or sex while having sadly given up on the possibility of true abundance, influence, and intimacy in our lives. 

This same phenomenon will have people at work obsess over short-term achievements, promotions, and raises as substitutes for the seemingly unattainable feelings of loving one's work, doing it with excellence for its own sake, and being properly valued for one's unique contribution.  With so many of our past illusions having recently been shattered - with the scandals in the churches, businesses, and governments that we historically gave so much power over us - isn't it time to reach into ourselves for greater responsibility in our choices of action and to reach out to God for more guidance & support in embracing the "real things" that we are born to and promised.  After all, these "real things" exist all around and within us, and are right there for the "embracing" - in nature, in our families & communities, in our innate ability to love God, ourselves, and others.

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Nancy Pina has over 20 years experience working with singles all over the world.  She resides in Houston, Texas with her husband.